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"At our age, we knew exactly what we wanted - and what we didn't. Tony listened, understood, and delivered a day that felt completely ours."

- Margaret & David
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Why Mature Weddings Deserve Something Different

You're not 25. Your guests aren't 25. So why would you want a DJ who treats every wedding like a university disco?

Most wedding DJs have one mode: loud, cheesy, and aimed at the TikTok generation. They'll shout "Let's get this party started!" to a room of people who just want good music, good conversation, and a dance without being herded onto the floor like reluctant cattle.

You want something different. Maybe fewer formalities and more genuine connection. Maybe you're blending families - introducing your kids to their new step-siblings, or celebrating with grandchildren who can't quite believe Grandma is getting married again. Whatever your situation, I'm here to create a day that actually fits your life. Not a template. See how other couples have crafted celebrations that feel genuinely theirs.

What to Expect

Ceremony & Drinks Reception

  • A calm and welcoming musical atmosphere for guests arriving
  • Carefully selected ceremony music that means something to you
  • Smooth, unobtrusive background music during the drinks reception

Wedding Breakfast Hosting

  • Warm introductions for key people in your life - children, grandchildren, friends, or family members
  • A light, humorous "Love Story" moment, told with heart
  • Icebreaker activities (optional), like Pearls of Wisdom cards or a gentle table quiz
  • Smooth guidance through toasts and speeches with no stress or confusion

Evening Reception

  • Music to suit you and your guests - whether it's Motown, soul, 70s classics, swing, or your favourite singalongs
  • Floor-filling tunes for everyone - or simply a more laid-back evening vibe, if you prefer
  • Interactive features like the Mr & Mrs Game or a couples' quiz (optional and tailored)
  • Not sure about the first dance? Explore alternatives that might suit you better

The Love Story - Your Journey, Beautifully Told

First love is sweet. Second love? That's the one with depth, scars, and a story worth telling.

Your journey to this day probably wasn't a straight line. Maybe there were previous marriages, children, career moves, losses, or years of thinking "it's too late for me." And then - somehow - you found each other. That story deserves more than a generic "and now they're married" announcement.

The Love Story narration captures your actual journey: the awkward first date, the moment you knew, the obstacles you overcame, the inside jokes your guests will finally understand. You each complete a questionnaire separately - no peeking - and I weave your answers into a narrative that makes people laugh, cry, and feel like they're part of something real.

Learn how the Love Story works, or read about why storytelling transforms weddings.

Here's an example from a fictional couple in their fabulous 50s:

The Love Story of Linda & Graham

Linda and Graham first met at a charity quiz night in 2017. Neither of them had planned to go. Linda was roped in by her sister. Graham had promised his friend Brian there'd be curry. Spoiler: there was no curry.

They were sat at the same table. Linda had the correct answer for every question involving Shakespeare. Graham kept shouting out answers before the host had finished speaking. "Loud," Linda called him. "Confident," Graham claims.

Their paths crossed again a few weeks later - at the same cafe. Graham was reading The Guardian. Linda was reading The Times. She remembers thinking, "Hmm. Opposites attract."

Their first proper date was a walk around Richmond Park. Linda brought sandwiches. Graham brought enthusiasm and got chased by a swan.

They both say they weren't expecting love at that point in their lives. They'd both been married before. Had grown-up kids. Had careers, mortgages, broken hearts, and full diaries. But it was easy. Natural. Real.

Graham proposed on a trip to Florence. Not in front of the cathedral or on the romantic bridge at sunset - but over breakfast in a quiet backstreet cafe, with Linda holding a croissant and wearing no makeup. He looked at her and said, "I don't want another decade without you in it."

Linda said yes. Then told him he'd better be serious.

Today, Graham says Linda is the love he didn't know he was still allowed to find. Linda says Graham makes her laugh, makes her safe, and makes her late to everything - but worth it.

Bringing Guests Together - Ice-Breaking Done Right

When you're blending families, friend groups, or celebrating with guests from different chapters of your lives, a little help with connection goes a long way.

Mature weddings often bring together people who've never met - your work friends and their golf buddies, your children's families and their long-lost university mates. Without a little nudge, guests can stay in their familiar bubbles all day.

I use gentle, elegant ice-breaking activities that create natural conversation without putting anyone on the spot. These might include:

  • Pearls of Wisdom cards - guests share advice or memories for the couple
  • Table quizzes - fun facts about the couple that get people talking
  • Connection games - subtle ways to mix guest groups during the reception

Want to understand the approach better? Read about turning strangers into friends at weddings.

Wedding Party Introductions

A special moment of warmth and connection that celebrates the important people in your life.

What Are Wedding Party Introductions?

Wedding Party Introductions are mini moments of celebration delivered right before your Grand Entrance into the wedding breakfast. They shine a joyful spotlight on the people closest to you - children, best mates, lifelong friends, grandchildren, siblings - and they do it with warmth, charm, and a healthy dose of humour.

But these aren't stiff announcements. They're short, witty, heartfelt stories that share a glimpse into who these people really are - why they matter, how they've shaped your life, and what makes them brilliant. It's like giving each one a standing ovation before the wine kicks in.

When Do They Happen?

Just before the Grand Entrance - often after guests are seated and before the meal begins. It sets the tone, lifts the room, and gets everyone talking and smiling.

Why They're So Powerful at Mature Weddings

Many mature couples have blended families, wider social circles, or guests who might not all know each other. These introductions are brilliant conversation starters. They create connection, break the ice, and add a bespoke, joyful moment of theatre that guests remember long after the cake's been cut. For tone and delivery, see how a Wedding Host handles announcements.

Sample Introductions

Judy & Graham

Music: "Come On Eileen" - Dexys Midnight Runners

MC INTRO (spoken):

"They met in the 80s, bonded over shoulder pads and suede shoes, and have been partners in crime ever since. One still thinks avocado is exotic, and the other has recently discovered emojis and is using them with... gusto. They've raised kids, hosted barbecues, and made every party feel like a family reunion. They're the kind of friends who always turn up with wine and wisdom. Please put your hands together for the ever-glamorous, ever-game..."

MUSIC CUE: (Dexys blasts in)

[They enter to cheers and possibly some spontaneous dad-dancing.]

Sarah

Music: "Ain't No Mountain High Enough" - Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell

MC INTRO (spoken):

"She's the bride's sister, lifelong best friend, and - depending who you ask - the better cook. She's weathered the 90s perms, teenage tantrums, and one particularly memorable caravan holiday. She's fiercely loyal, naturally stylish, and has supported today's couple every step of the way - sometimes quite literally with a walking stick in hand. Let's hear it for the woman who's seen it all and still shows up with a smile..."

MUSIC CUE: (Motown magic)

[Sarah enters, waving like a pageant queen, getting teary already.]

The Grandkids - Lily & Max

Music: "Happy" - Pharrell Williams

MC INTRO (spoken):

"They've taken today very seriously - Max ironed his own shirt, and Lily has rehearsed her smile in the mirror 74 times. They're the flower girl and page boy, part-time mischief-makers and full-time stars of Granny and Grandad's hearts. Let's welcome the real VIPs..."

MUSIC CUE: (Happy plays)

[They toddle in to a sea of 'Awwws', cameras flashing, and grandparents beaming.]

The Difference You'll Actually Notice

The Typical DJ Experience What You'll Get Instead
"LET'S GET THIS PARTY STARTED!" at 110 decibels Warm, confident hosting that reads the room - not overwhelms it
Playlist designed for 25-year-olds Music from your era, your memories, your actual taste
Shows up, plays music, leaves Full planning support, timeline coordination, and calm guidance all day
One-size-fits-all approach 2,500+ weddings of experience knowing what actually works for mature couples
Awkward silences or forced participation Natural flow, comfortable atmosphere, dancing when people want to dance

Want the full breakdown? See exactly how a Wedding Host differs from a typical DJ.

What Couples Say

5/5

"We wanted a wedding that felt elegant but relaxed - something truly about us. Tony created the perfect atmosphere, blending great music, warm hosting, and moments we'll never forget."

- Sarah & James
5/5

"Tony knew exactly how to bring everyone together. It wasn't about noise and flash - it was about heart, humour, and memories. We couldn't have asked for better."

- John & Elaine
5/5

"At our age, we knew exactly what we wanted - and what we didn't. Tony listened, understood, and delivered a day that felt completely ours. The Love Story had everyone in tears of laughter and joy."

- Margaret & David

See my money-back guarantee - I'm confident you'll love the experience.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can we skip traditional wedding moments?

Absolutely. Many of my mature couples choose to do things their own way - skipping the bouquet toss, garter throw, or even the first dance. I'll help guide that process respectfully and suggest alternatives that feel more authentic to you.

What if we want a low-key evening?

That's perfectly fine. Some couples prefer background music and gentle dancing over a loud party. I'll help you set the right mood - whether that's elegant jazz during dinner, soft classics for conversation, or a relaxed playlist for the evening.

Can we involve our children or grandchildren?

Yes - I've often helped include family members in Grand Entrances, readings, or other special moments. Wedding Party Introductions are particularly meaningful for mature weddings where blending families is part of the celebration.

Will our music be appropriate for our guests?

Absolutely. With over 2,500 weddings behind me, I know how to read a room and build a playlist that suits everyone - from the grandchildren to the grandparents - without clichés or cheesiness.

What is a Love Story and is it right for us?

A Love Story narration is a heartfelt, often humorous retelling of how you met and fell in love, shared with your guests during the reception. It's particularly powerful for mature couples because your story often has more depth, more twists, and more meaning. Second chances at love, finding your person later in life - these stories resonate beautifully.

How do you help guests who don't know each other?

I use gentle ice-breaking activities like Pearls of Wisdom cards, table quizzes, or Wedding Party Introductions. These create natural conversation starters without putting anyone on the spot. They're especially valuable when blending families or friend groups who haven't met before.

What's the difference between you and a typical DJ?

A typical DJ focuses primarily on playing music, often with a loud, high-energy approach. As a Wedding Host, I combine elegant MC duties with curated music - coordinating timings, making warm announcements, facilitating special moments, and ensuring the day flows smoothly while keeping energy levels appropriate for your guests.

Do you offer any guarantees?

Yes, I offer a money-back guarantee. If you're not completely satisfied with how I've hosted your wedding, I'll refund your fee. It's my way of showing confidence in the service I provide and giving you peace of mind.

Beautiful Venues for Mature Celebrations

The right venue sets the tone for your entire day. Here are some elegant options I've worked with that suit mature weddings beautifully.

Surrey

Berkshire

Oxfordshire

Cotswolds

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Ready to Talk?

I work with a limited number of couples each month - enough to give everyone the attention they deserve. If your date is available, we'll have a relaxed conversation about what you want (and don't want) from your day. No sales pitch. No pressure. If I don't think I'm the right fit, I'll tell you.

Still unsure? I offer a money-back guarantee. If you're not happy with how I've hosted your wedding, I'll refund your fee. After 2,500+ weddings, I'm confident - but your peace of mind matters more.

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